Only Person in the Room

How to Make a Person Feel Like They’re the Only Person in the Room

When former President George H.W. Bush passed away on November 30, 2018, I was surprised to find out that one of my relatives had not only met the president personally back in the 1990s, but she had the pictures to prove it. The relative in question raved about how George H.W. Bush greeted her. “When…

How To Get Over the Intimidation of Trying Something New
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How To Get Over the Intimidation of Trying Something New

Not long ago, I was talking to a relative about the business of writing. This relative maintains a very active social media account, and I told the relative that I thought that maybe there was some potential to turn it into a blogging gig, perhaps even a monetized one to help offset the relative’s tight…

The Most Important Thing You Can Do Before Making a Decision
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The Most Important Thing You Can Do Before Making a Decision

So, you’re facing a huge decision. This one’s big. Really big. This is the kind of decision that will make or break you. Sausage or bacon? Okay, maybe not, but there are plenty of times when we do have to make big decisions: about what car to buy, about whether to splurge on that expensive…

Want to Avoid Making Mistakes? Consider This Principle Doctors Use.

Want to Avoid Making Mistakes? Consider This Principle Doctors Use.

When I was in middle school, I once walked out of a speech class in tears because I couldn’t deliver the speech right. The teacher came out into the hallway and told me, “You’re a perfectionist. You like to get everything right the first time.” She encouraged me to go in and just do my…

9 Things I’ve Come to Believe After Teaching 19 Years
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9 Things I’ve Come to Believe After Teaching 19 Years

I’ve been teaching high school for close to two decades now. When I first started teaching, Bill Clinton was at the end of his presidency, dial-up internet was still a thing, and there was no such thing as a smartphone. Some things have changed during that time, while other things have not. What follows is…

Good (Legal) Entertainment Doesn’t Have To Cost Money
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Good (Legal) Entertainment Doesn’t Have To Cost Money

There are a lot of ways to pay for entertainment, be it cable or a vacation. But sometimes you may not have the money, or you may not want to spend the money. Chances are, there are some free (or really cheap) entertainment options in your area and you may not even know about them….